BEST FOR MY KIDS

BEST FOR MY KIDS

This blog is intended to explore continuous learning education for the kids.  Educating the hearth, studying their behavior and providing them guidance and protection.  It includes updating latest visuals for their amusement like pictures, videos or movies that is educational.

Just as you want to be a successful mom or dad, your children want to be successful too. Successful at being a kid, successful at growing up, they really do. But what do they know? After all, they're the new kids on the block to this adventure called life.

Are they ready? 
Did you prepare them well?

Let’s talk first t about their behavior ....how does your kids behaves?

AS WE OBSERVED FOR SOME PARENTS ARE SAYING …

“I TRIED EVERYTHING TO STOP MY 2 ½ YEAR OLD SONS TO STOP RACING AROUND THE HOUSE”

“I WAS SICKED TIRED OF STOPPING MY 2 YEAR OLD DAUGTHER WRITING ON THE WALL AND OTHER PLACE INSIDE THE HOUSE”

“MY 3 ½ YEAR OLD DAUGTHER DON’T STOP WACTHING CARTOON MOVIES FOR ALMOST 4 HOURS STRAIGHT, SHE CRIED WHEN I TURN OFF THE TV OR CHANGE IT WITH OTHER CHANNEL”

These are only some examples of parent’s problems on their kid’s behavior.

“This would happen to your kids when they left alone”

Normal behavior in children depends on the Childs age, personality and physical and emotional and development.

Today’s kids though face so many more trials and temptations than some of us "more mature" folks.  We want our kids to be the very best that they can be.  For them to accomplish that goal, they need our love, patience, support and encouragement, but at the same time they also need our guidance and protection.

So what shall we do to our kids?

Let’s see this…

"The Greatest Parenting Secret in History!"

Stop Yelling • Lecturing • Scolding • Pushing and
Prodding • and Start Getting the Results You Want
Once You Learn This Long 
Forgotten Secret

                                                                         By: Martha Stevens

                What secrete?

Educating the 
HEART!

The brain gives one knowledge, but the heart gives it ... Direction ... and enriches   life in a way that logic alone cannot. 

In the end, it's not 
GENIUS 
(the brain) 
but 
WISDOM 
(the heart) 
that wins out and 
makes your life fulfilling

Educating the heart is done by teaching Life's Lessons - the overriding  principles that govern our lives - and the matching Life Skills that make it work.  

                                                                                                 By: Martha Stevens

Educating the heart develops good character qualities and includes such things as . . .

 Honesty
 Kindness
 Integrity 
 Unselfishness
 Being a willing and diligent worker

   Doing chores without being told and doing it well
 Reaching out and helping others
 Learning conversational skills
 Making and keeping friends
 And much more

Now the question how do we educate the hearth of our kids?

                                  

You can teach them after school or make a Sunday school to them to fill the gap, and even though the spiritual overlaps and polishes the other areas in your child, the actual molding of the heart and its emotions must be done in the home by you.

They must see you as a ….

    Teacher, mentor, coach, guide and cheerleader

  ...all rolled into one. 

Teachers, Mentors, Coaches and Guides not only teach their students, cheer them on with praise and encouragement, but also critique and correct them. But you'll notice Critic is not on the list. 

You can further learn in details when you purchase this book of Martha Stevens

Here are some methods you can start with…

 Often times we experience to many questions to our kids

1.  Why do I have to do this. . . that. . . or the other thing?"

2.   "How come? . . . Who says? . . . So what? . . . Who cares?”. . . Etc.

These aren't "book learning" type questions, they are "heart learning," yet virtually all emphasis is placed on the academics - educating the BRAIN. Of course education is vital for getting through life successfully. However, the problem is that educating the HEART simply falls by the wayside.  

You teach your children to be emotionally healthy by learning them to be hard working, respectful, not back talking or yelling at you.

Here’s how you will do it…for ages 2 years old up to 5 years old

      Unwanted behavior

“When you experience some of the above problems and or misbehavior of your kids, the best way to stop is to ignore it. This way works best over a period of time. When you want the behavior to stop immediately, you can use the time-out method”.

     How do I use the time-out method?

    1.    Decide ahead of time the behaviors that will result in a time-out (usually tantrums, or aggressive or dangerous behavior).

2.    Choose a time-out place that is uninteresting for the child and not frightening, such as a chair, corner or playpen. When you're away from home, consider using a car or a nearby seating area as a time-out place.

3.    Give warning When the unacceptable behavior occurs, tell the child the behavior is unacceptable and give a warning that you will put him or her in time-out if the behavior doesn't stop.

4.     Remain calm and don't look angry. If your child goes on misbehaving, calmly take him or her to the time-out area.

5.    Monitor if possible, keep track of how long your child's been in time-out. Set a timer so your child will know when time-out is over. Time-out should be brief (generally 1 minute for each year of age), and should begin immediately after reaching the time-out place or after the child calms down.

6.  Observe you should stay within sight or earshot of the child, but don't talk to him or her. If the child leaves the time-out area, gently return him or her to the area and consider resetting the timer. When the time-out is over, let the child leave the time-out place. Don't discuss the bad behavior, but look for ways to reward and reinforce good behavior later on.